Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Even if it isn't pretty, we still survive....

This isn't the most happy post: You've been warned.
Since I blogged last, so much has happened and I haven't been sure I wanted to say it all. I caught up on my obsession that is Grey's Anatomy. Fall TV is boring except for Grey's on Thursdays and House on Mondays. My skin has turned on me during this pregnancy. This happened the last time, but I had high hopes it wouldn't happen again. I had to put on my post baby/fat jeans that stretch this morning. I told my self that if they didn't fit I wasn't going to work. They fit so I went to school.

Judy, the lady that I job share with had a stroke and hasn't been at work. This took away my teaching companion and a good friend. Her deficits aren't physical, meaning she can talk and walk. She has lost some part of her vision and her ability to read. She is working hard, but we don't know yet when or if she can come back to work. This adds a lot of stress to my work load with extra lesson plans and everything that Judy used to do.

Parent Teacher Conferences were last week. YUCK! I survived and I would say they were even successful. Let me just put this out there. The conferences are scheduled for 15 minutes for a reason. When you go to conferences for your children, keep this in mind. If you feel the need to hash over every single assignment, make another appointment. Oh, and go at your given time. Not before it and not after it. I made it through those long days and so that was a plus.

Worse than all of that, my brother Scott's cancer came back or rather it spread to a lymph node. This isn't shock to most of the 5 people reading this, but it was still a shock to our family. The first set of scans showed that the cancer has not spread to his lungs so that was great news. He was given two choices: surgery or chemo. Scott has since met with an Oncologist (Dr. Hansen) to discuss chemo and I think that is the way he may go. Scott is a fighter and he is ready to beat this. Thank you to those that have known about all of this and have sent messages or called. Scott will now be unable to serve a mission and that is very sad. Nathan however, has turned in his papers. He is now waiting for his call.

Today we lost the beloved pumpkin binkie. This is a sad day at the Wallis house. We have looked everywhere and even though we weren't able to find it, Abby took a nap and went to bed for the night without it. She cried for her daddy, probably thinking that he would miraculously give her a pumpkin binkie. Poor 2 1/2 year old little girl without her binkie. She will be fine.

We are going to Disneyland at the first of November and that is at least something to look forward to. Abby is very excited to go there and Ned and I are excited for her. She will just love it!

When I originally thought about this post, I thought of funny and witty things to write. When I sat down to write it, all that came out was this sad and woe is me saga. I think that tomorrow when Ned comes home I will be much happier. I also think that a Costco sized bucket of Red Vines and a mega bucket of movie popcorn smothered in butter would help too.

14 comments:

Pieces of Us said...

I'm so sorry about your brother! I had no idea. Your family will be in my prayers.

The Fowers Clan said...

I agree Red Vines and popcorn solve everything!!

Jenny said...

I just bought three bags of red vines and proceeded to eat them until it made me sick. And then I ate some more.

Sorry about your brother, that sucks.

Oh, and I don't want to be a photographer, but if you ever want me to practice on you I'm game.

ang said...

Oh Mel, you have been busy! I am so sorry to hear about your brother! I really didn't know he was sick at all. I hope treatment goes well for him. And don't feel bad about the fat jeans; I pulled mine out weeks ago. :( Hang in there and let me know if there is anything I can do to help. Ü

Valerie said...

Sorry things are difficult right now. I am also sorry about Scott. We have been praying for him and I know he will get through it.

Disneyland is a great thing to look forward too. My kids loved it and I am sure Abby will too. Nothing is sweeter than watching your kids Getting so excited and having so much fun.

Joanne said...

Hey Mel, we've been praying for Scott. I hope everything goes well. Is Dr. Hansen in Ogden? If so, I think he'll be going to the clinic where my mother-in-law works as a Nurse Practitioner. So she could possibly be there to help him through things. Let me know, and I'll tell her to watch out for him.

Amy said...

Hang in there! I think everything seems a little worse when you're pregnant, because you have to deal with that too. I'm so sorry to hear about your brother's cancer.
We'll pray for him :) And yes - definately go buy some red vines from Costco!! Treats always make me feel better. I hope everything else is going well for you guys. Have so much fun in Disneyland! You guys will love it!!!

Jessica said...

Sounds like you've had a rough go of it lately. We will keep your family in our prayers!

Ainsley said...

Love you! I know everything will be better soon! And you are a gorgeous pregnant lady!

Hollyween said...

Oh Melanie,
It's hard to see someone you love go through cancer and all the crap that comes with it. Cancer sucks.

I know it first hand. Watching John go through an entire year of chemo was gut wrenching. But the miracle is... he is okay.

And Scott will be too. Hang in there and I'll definitely be keeping your entire fmaily in my prayers.

Love you.

Brandon, Emily and Chloe said...

Melanie - We are so sorry to hear about Scott! We are certainly keeping Schott and your family in our thoughts and prayers. It sounds like you are so very busy! I'll be thinking about you!

Janiel said...

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. - Keep your chin up girl!!
Love ya

Laura said...

I am glad I found the link to your blog on Holly's blog. We have all been praying for Scott and your whole family. We love you guys.

Amanda said...

Oh Mel! I had no idea that Scott had cancer. I'm so sorry to hear that. I cannot even imagine the emotions that come with that. I'm sure he's devistated about not being able to serve. I'm just sick for you.
And don't worry about posting a blah post. Sometimes life is blah!
Love ya girly.